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Parenting Methods According to Islam

In Islam itself, it teaches several methods of Islamic parenting. Thus, later, the child will develop a feeling of love for Islam and he will do everything in accordance with Sharia. Moreover, Islamic education of children will not be beneficial when they are young. However, the results will be noticeable as your child grows older.

Parenting Methods According to Islam

What parent is not proud when their grown children are always obedient and loyal to their parents. Continuing to teach Islam to children from childhood. Your child will grow up with Islamic values embedded in the breasts of each of your children.

There are several important points to consider for every parent who naturally teaches children about parenting in all areas of a child's life.

A. Tawheed

Tawheed is the first and foremost method of teaching Islam to children. By instilling monotheism from an early age in children, they will become Allah SWT. As the only god to be worshiped, there is no other god but Him. With this seeder, the child will always believe in Allah and reject everything that is contrary to the teachings of Islam.

Not only that, teaching children about Islam should also include a feeling of love for the Qur'an from an early age. There have been many case studies showing that children become familiar with the Quran from an early age and transform the child's environment into a Quran-loving environment. The child will also like this book of Allah, and he will make his life path similar to the path indicated in the Quran.

B. Exemplary

Islamic education for children, which every parent should know, is also a good example. Making yourself a role model for children will make children happier with their past and make them people to be emulated as role models in every life.

We often see our children who suddenly want to go to prayer in the mosque, or begin to open the Koran, or do not want to eat because they want to learn to fast. The child will not consciously and voluntarily do this. However, there are reasons for children to start such actions. Whether they imitate their parents or people who often walk in front of their house.

The correct upbringing of children in Islam is the acquaintance of children with the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him). It's the same with the friends of Tabi'in and Tabiu'tabi'in. I begin to tell the story of the prophet with all the struggles and examples of his friends in Islamic furniture, in addition to the stories of the struggles of other friends. This will cause children to try more to imitate figures in Islam.

Not only that, parents are also the objects of children's role models that children see for the first time. Not only that, parents must also demonstrate Islamic values in their daily lives so that children make parents role models in their children's education according to Islam.

C. Muamala

The concept of muamal is also very important as a method of teaching children in Islam. Children also need to be taught the different ways of doing muamal, both muamal with God and bermamal with other people.

Raising children according to Islam using the muamal method will make children behave politely and courteously towards their peers and older people.

Not only this.

Looking at the current situation in the field, when he sees a child who is only ten years old, he begins to speak harsh words to both his playmates and his family. It is so painful to see how these children, who are still in the golden age, start muamal with irrelevant things.

For this reason, the parent is obliged to teach the muamal child in accordance with true Islamic guidance. Thus, the education of children is compulsory for every parent.

Thus, by starting to teach your children Islam from an early age to the very child, you will transform your child into children who are lacking in heaven. It is also the most valuable asset for the family, especially for parents when their parents have reached old age. And there is nothing that parents need except love for their child.